Wednesday, July 2, 2008

The Quickest Way to Find Love Is to Give Love

And the easiest way to lose love is to hold on to it tightly. Surely, life doesn't aways give what you want. However, what you have experienced or missed earlier on in your life is to allow to grow as to be ready to receive better prizes in the future.

Have you encounter people who always shut love out of their lives, claiming that they can live better without love meddling into their lives or are constantly complaining that true love is always hard to come by.

"If you think you can, or cannot, you are right!". The wise words from Henry Ford. If you look back into your life, you will get to recognize the fact that the outcomes of your present life is none other than the consequences of the choices you made earlier on in your life.

Your beliefs, principles and values you hold in your life determines the choices you made which in turn decides what the outcome of your life it will be.

Thus, the easiest way to change the outcome of your life is to simply change your belief. Well, I did say it is simple, however, I never said it is easy. Imagine changing a belief which you hold onto so tightly since you were young till now. How easy is it to change it?

As hard as it may be, it is not impossible. To keep doing what you did on the same thing and expecting a different result is pure insanity.

Therefore, if you find yourself not getting the amount of love you desire or not having the type of friendship or romance partner you are asking for, start delving into your own beliefs and pick out those which are working against your desires and work towards changing them.

Every experiences in your life have their own purposes to serve. Lament not what things which have been taken away from you. Rather, anticipate what good things are to come after this.

Personally, I think it is never fair to judge the situation at that moment. Rather, leave your judgment to a later part of your life then decide if the prize you receive now is worth the wait and sacrifices or not.

At least, up to this point of my life, I am truly grateful for everything, good or bad that happened to me. For it is those experiences that mold the today me.

Want to see better outcome in your life? Then start to make better choices! Why complicate such a simple stuff?

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