A: The Tao Te Ching is wisest, most influential book ever written. It was written 2,500 years ago, at the time of Confucius by a Chinese master named LaoTsu. The Tao offers a way of living with integrity. In fact, LaoTsu believed that people do not need rules' Just raise children to grow up and stay connected with the Tao.
Q: Can you tell us more about the Tao?
A: You can read it in an hour and a half. It contains 81 verses. Each of those 81 verses begins with living contentment and peace. When you live the Tao, you become peace, rather than talking about it. The Tao has no rules. The Tao does nothing but it leaves nothing undone -- It does not interfere. It allows and is constantly creating.
Q: You grew up without a father, spending time in foster homes during your childhood. Yet you dedicated this book to him. Why?
A: My father walked out on our family. I never saw him and have no memory of him. Living the Tao, I am able to extend love to him and thank him for being who he was. People do what they know how to do. I see now, it's all perfect.
Q: How has writing this book changed your life?
A: Two years ago, when I turned 65, I started on the Tao. I told my secretary to sell everything. The Tao teaches us to let go of things. Use and give everything away. I walked away from it. If you look at all your clothes, you'll find out that you only wear 20 percent of them. You just don’t wear 80 percent. Take what you have and don't use and circulate it. Give stuff to people who truly need it.
Q: Why is trusting your intuition essential for living a happy life?
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A: Intuition is getting closer to your source. It's God talking to you. You get more intuitive as you get closer to God. True happiness comes from knowing you are connected to insights so much bigger than your puny little ego. It's an inner knowing and vision that everyone has. You get to a point where you can totally rely on it. When I am talking to someone it will flash through my mind. Maybe that caller is in Nova Scotia or Wisconsin. I don’t know who he or she is. And I will ask that person about a name that has flashed through my mind. Intuition has never let me down. The people who are professional intuitives or are really good at reading those kinds of flashes and feelings.
Q: What rules does the Tao offer for a happy life?
A: The Tao has no rules. When you run your life by rules, you've left the Tao. It speaks of noninterference and nonviolence. You can't be a person of the Tao and have an enemy. Never use enemy and I in the same sentence. When you use violence to stop what you don't like, you create a new generation of people who are going to go after the people who bombed their parents' village. Every time you use force, you create a counterforce. Think about how you get rid of dandelions: You don't go out with a shovel and start smacking them because all of those fuzzballs go up into the air, creating more dandelions. violence begets more violence.
Q: How can you live without laws and rules?
A: We need to lead by an inner kind of law that connects us to the source of all things. We are all pieces of God. We have to find the highest place within ourselves that wants to give. The Tao says that Source wants us to allow things to be. You have to plant a seed and leave it alone. It was probably a lawyer who said that we're not a nation of people, we are a nation of laws. We are not a nation of rules. We are a species of beings who have a higher place within ourselves and a higher connection to the Source of all creation.
Q: Can you give us an example?
A: A lot of the Tao has to do with water. Water is the softest of all things, yet it is the most powerful. The ocean stays low because it patiently allows all things to flow into it. It is always flexible. You can't grasp it. The Tao is not about grasping but allowing, like water.
Q: You are the father of 8 children, ages 17 -40,and grandfather of 5 kids. How can the Tao help us to be better parents?
A: Catch them doing something right instead of doing something wrong. Remind them of their greatness on a daily basis. Constantly let them know you care about them. But you also have to let go. The term "enough is enough" is out of the Tao. As parents, you have to know when not to interfere with your children's lives. You have to know when to not push and let them make mistakes and make their own decisions. Involve your children in your passions and hobbies. We taught all of our children to meditate. We took them on walking meditations. They laughed but now they say it was one of the most important things in their life. Expose them to great ideas. Let them see you doing things you love. Then you will respect your children's passions as they grow.
Q: You write that thoughts create reality. What do you mean?
A: We are what we think about. If what we think about is what we don't like, then why are we surprised when what we don't like turns up in our life? If you think about all the things that are wrong in your relationship, then you will continue to attract what you don't like.... even what you don't like in yourself and in your children. You have to monitor what you think about. Peace makers never put their thoughts on what they don't want, only on what they intend to create and what they intend to manifest.
Q: How does that work? It sounds bewildering.
A: Excellent! Sell your cleverness and purchase bewilderment. The Tao says to stop trying to figure it all out and just be in a state of awe. Then how could you not love yourself? The best way to show love to God is by loving each other. When enough of us do that, we'll love everybody.
Q: Isn't that naive?
A: When you think from this perspective, on what's possible, then you always have hope. You always know that there is a way.
Q: You mention God a lot. How are you so certain?
A: Each person has trillions of cells, our planets are specks of energy. The sun is 93 million miles away. If it was 2 feet closer, we would burn up and if it was 2 feet further, we would freeze. You are part of that creative infinite organizing intelligence. The first 9 months of your life you turned everything over to God. You didn't worry about whether your kidneys would show up. And you showed up into the world, and you were turned over to people who said, "We'll take it from here." And that was your mistake. Your task is to know that God doesn't make mistakes. How could you believe that you are not worthy of yourself? You came out of that creative infinite organizing intelligence.
Q: How can all this make me happy ?
A: Stop looking for happiness. It's an inside job. Be it. Live it. Radiate it out. When you have to choose between being kind and being right, it's always better to be kind.
Laurie Nadel, Ph.D. hosts The Sixth Sense radio show on www.webtalkradio.net. She interviews exceptional individuals who are pioneers on the frontiers of consciousness. She is the author of Sixth Sense: Unlocking Your Ultimate Mind Power, a national bestseller.
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